As I ran my errands this week I could not help but notice the rush on the mall, local drug stores, and cards stores as the last minute shoppers searched for the perfect gift for Mom on this hallowed day. I have to admit that I have been guilty of waiting until the last minute myself but this year is different for me. I have been blessed with the opportunity to live less than five minutes away from my parents and to be able to spend time with them almost daily. When I was younger I can remember waiting for the day that I could get as far away from them as possible so that I could be free.
With age comes wisdom and an appreciation for my mother that I have to be honest that I lacked most of my life. I took for granted that she would always be there and that no matter what I did or where I was that she would always be my mother. As I have gotten older I have matured and my relationship with my mother has matured as well. For the first time in my life I can say that I have a solid relationship with my mom. She is my confidant, she is my friend, and as I have gotten to know her I realize that she is a pretty cool lady.
I have been blessed to have a great relationship with my children and have been able to develop a level of friendship with them in their adulthood. It is encouraging to now share that same type of relationship with my mom. As a mom I realize that no gift found on a shelf in any store will ever mean more to me than having a loving relationship with my children.
Take some time this weekend to spend some quality time with your mother, whether it is in person or via skype, tell her that you love and appreciate her. Honor her today and everyday for the many sacrifices she has made for you. Mother’s Day may be celebrated nationally on one day, but we should honor and cherish the woman who gave us life everyday.
Go ahead and give her the flowers, chocolates, and gifts you have for her but take a moment to simply tell her you love her and watch her glow with pride in the knowledge that she did okay as your Mom. 🙂
Happy Mother’s Day from Constant Relationship Coaching
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